Do you have a crying, upset or colicky baby? These tips for moms can help you understand how to calm a baby who won't stop crying.
Why do babies cry?
It’s hard when your baby won’t stop crying. Well, you might be worried that something is wrong with your little one. Or that you might lose your temper, that your parenting skills aren’t up to par, or that you’ll never connect with your baby.
However, you will succeed.
Babies cry for many reasons, and crying is the primary way babies communicate. In fact, it’s how they get your attention and express their needs.
At first, it may be difficult to interpret your baby’s different cries. But as you spend more time listening, you’ll be better able to recognize and meet your baby’s specific needs.
Here are some common reasons why babies cry:
- Drowsiness or fatigue
- Wet or dirty diaper
- Hunger
- Overstimulation by noise or activity.
- Cramps, acid reflux or food allergies
- Pain or illness
- Gases
- Anxiety or fear of strangers
How to calm a baby who won't stop crying
Below are some tips that may be helpful when trying to calm a baby who won't stop crying.
Recognize your limits
Pay attention to your internal warning signs when you’re feeling overwhelmed. The sooner you recognize your personal limits, the easier it will be to plan ahead.
Whether it’s getting extra help, a break, a trip outside, or a quick pep talk from a friend or loved one, these small steps to getting ready will help you get in the best mood to care for your baby.
Remember that time is on your side
For most babies, crying peaks at six weeks, so this means it gradually decreases.
So, not knowing how to calm a baby at that moment can make you work a little harder. But, you already know that you must be very patient because things will get better.
Seek support
If you can, ask for help during the most stressful times of the day. Say yes when people offer to help with chores, meals, or childcare.
Additionally, you can find a group of moms to talk to and get out of the house every now and then. It really makes a big difference knowing that you have some help along the way.
It doesn't have to be perfect
Parenting isn’t about perfection. It would be impossible to be completely present and attentive to a baby. Especially if you don’t know how to soothe a baby who cries 24 hours a day.
Similarly, experts estimate that meeting your baby's needs at least one-third of the time is sufficient. This way, a healthy bond and secure attachment are being created.
